I don’t understand people who are mean out of jealousy. I really don’t. If I’m “jealous” or envious of someone, I don’t let it take form in rage. I let it be more like admiration. Like “dang she has nice hair! I wish I had nicer hair!” Then I would be like “yo you have nice hair!” I don’t let my insecurities take over and stop me from being nice to people.
I know there are a few people who give me back handed compliments, avoid posts that have my name attached or have said some not nice things. And honestly, it bums me out. Because I feel like being happy for someone else is the easiest way to just have a happier heart. How must it feel to have rage seeping through your heart like that?
We are all people. With feelings and insecurities. Feelings of inadequacy… I wish more people took that into account.